Finding Quality Programming
Things to look for:
DIVERSITY
One of the great flaws of the human condition is that we are afraid
of what we donít know. The unfamiliar becomes the ìunsafe.î So it is in
our best interests, as wise media consumers, to utilize the vast
array of on-screen choices for MAXIMUM EXPOSURE TO THE NEW AND
DIFFERENT. After all, homogenization
is a concept that may work for dairy products, but it rarely works
for intellectual products. Our best advice: look for programming
with a broad spectrum of
color, ethnicity, size, shape, age, belief and gender. Children
look for faces like their own: FIND THEM.
CURIOSITY AND LEARNING
Someone recently said of the legendary Walter Cronkite, "He still
has the curiosity of a childóthatís what keeps him going." Take this advice
to heart when looking for programs to watch with your kids: what
will it teach? What will it present? Will it fire the imagination
enough to make
the viewer want to learn more? If the answerís yes, TUNE IN.
FROM PAGE TO SCREEN
If your family is entranced by a particular show adapted from a literary
work, RUN, DO NOT WALK, to the library and find the original, and
make a point of exploring that work together. What was changed
as the story went from page to screen? What
was added? And what was left out? The better children understand
not only the changes, but the reason for them, the better they
will be able to see
that process at work in other arenasÖsuch as the relationship between news
that comes their way via print, broadcast, and internet. READ MORE
ABOUT IT.
ROLE MODELS
Thanks to a commitment on the part of more production houses, there
are increasing numbers of documentaries about ordinary people
doing extraordinary things. HBOís
"Iron Jawed Angels" covered the womenís suffrage movement as it
has never been seen before."Something The Lord Made" addressed
the courage of a 1930s southern surgeon, as he asked his African
American lab assistant to guide him through
the implementation of a new cardiac procedure invented by the less
formally educated man. The procedure has saved the lives of millions
of children. There
are hundreds of programs that explore human milestones: FIND THEM.
NON-VIOLENT CONFLICT RESOLUTION
Use the "Star-Trek: Next Generation" diplomatic model: force
should be the last, not the first choice, as a means of problem solving.
And yes,
we share your concern that this will be one of the more difficult
challenges you face as viewers. KEEP AT IT.
NEW NEWS
Once upon a time, children complained when their parents watched
the evening news because it was ìsooooo boring.î Now
they complain because it can be "SO scary." In a post-9/11
world, it is essential to keep informed. Parents need to know that
there is a connection between the repetition of disturbing images
and the nightmares of a child. The evening news is not made for kids.
It can skew
their view of the world. Children frequently don’t realize that just
because they see the images again, the event is not happening again.
Two solutions: first, limit children’s exposure to news; second, empowerment.
If your child sees a news item about a disaster, your first question
as a parent can be, "How can we help?" Send blankets. Make
cards. Collect items in the neighborhood. Do something!